#voicethisout 

Hi Akka, I delivered Twin boys through cesarean last month and have been trying to cope up with the new changes. Currently, I am at my mom’s place, and to my surprise, my father-in-law whenever he gets a chance expresses his word that he would be taking me and “His” grandsons (that’s how he mentions in front of my parents!) to his place (my in-law’s place) by 3rd month itself. He does this repeatedly which irritates me as I feel very bad that my health and well-being don’t matter at all!!
My mother-in-law had a normal delivery back then and she stayed at her mom’s place from 3rd month of her pregnancy till 5th month of postpartum. But when it comes to me, I am supposed to handle everything very soon, taking care of kiddos and household works as well, as there is no maid at my in-law’s place also and they are not willing to keep one! (This is a different issue altogether!) I always wonder If they had their own daughter, which they don’t, will they behave the same??? I wish I could tell this to their face and express my opinion also that I need more time to recover, that too taking care of twins. Lastly, thank you Akka for providing a voice this out platform it does feel great to share things that sometimes I can’t do in person! It does relieve my pressure knowing that few people are out there who are there to hear me and comfort me. Thank you once again!! Kudos and all the best Akka!