Stop body shaming!
Hi Anu, hope you are doing well. Can you voice this out? Most people think that after delivery, the mommy’s pouch should go in. Some mommy’s tummies take time to go back in shape. Some mommies might have diastasis recti which they are not aware of it.
Society, relatives, and friends are pinpointing and hurting by asking if are you still pregnant which is embarrassing and puts a lot of pressure, and stress. They should understand bringing a human into the world takes 10 months, likewise to get back to its shape mommies need a lot of time. Also, they don’t need to be back in shape, if they are healthy that’s fine.
I have undergone those situations where my 2 kids are weighed while birthing, also had diastasis recti, and I’m unaware of it during my first post-pregnancy, after 2nd post-pregnancy came to know about diastasis recti, I am working on it.