#voicethisout Hello Akka, This is something that keeps hurting me too much. It’s about the gender of babies. I’m a second-time mom, and both are girls. Whoever walks in, or whoever hears t hat I have a girl the second time now, feels pity on me. as if I’m suffering or something. Nobody is going to lend their hands if I’m in trouble or really when I need some support. but why should they worry about the gender of my kids? I just want all the 3rd people to keep their mouths shut and mind their business… how many people are longing for children, in such a scenario, getting a baby, with good health itself is a blessing.
Why don’t these people understand this? Right from pregnancy, “what baby is going to be born” was the concern all around me. this really stressed me a lot. I want people to understand how much pain we undergo both mentally and physically. the bad part is even women around us, don’t understand!