I started looking around
#bethechange
A lot of couples when planning a baby are so focused on that, they forget to look around… I hope the below message helps someone out there.
“Hi Akka, I am your October 30th Pre pregnancy student. The class was really an eye-opener. I got married in 2019 and from then till now I am trying to have a baby. Because I love babies and after marriage, I thought I can have my own kindergarten, full of babies 🙈.
But that expectation leads to lots and lots of disappointment. During COVID season I couldn’t check myself with a gynecologist as they said we are checking only pregnant ladies now, No outpatient. I got Ovulation prediction kits and tried them.
My friends, and family girls who are even younger than me got pregnant one by one which pushed me into depression. I stopped having sex with my partner as I lost interest in my body and his as well.
Then I took lots and lots of medicine as per the doctor’s advice but the result was Negative. They suggested Laparoscopy for ovarian drilling and I had a closed cervix so they suggested cervical dilation. We did both on Aug 2022. I was desperately ready to do anything for a baby… But I forgot to look around, love my family, love my husband.
After the class, I am completely a new person Akka. In the past 3 years, yesterday was the first time I slept without any worries or depression.
Thank you so much Akka… I hope we will meet again for early pregnancy class and further.”