#voicethisout

Hi Anu ka. Hope you are great. love all your videos. I would like to raise this issue as well.

Mostly, when a family member passes away, the family doesn’t celebrate any festivals for one whole year to commemorate the mourning.

But when it comes to DIL, the rules change. Really? When my mother passed away in 2020, my in-laws said – you can celebrate all festivals as you have already come to this family and don’t belong to your father’s family. (Seriously?)
But when my hubby’s Periappa (His dad’s elder brother) passed away recently, (whom I haven’t even seen as he didn’t turn up for our marriage), I am asked to mourn for one whole year, not celebrating any festivals.

WHY so much bias? How is he more important than my mother? WHY can’t they keep equal rules on both sides? All lives need the same respect. Let’s stop this nonsense.

If you see it relevant, do post this someday ka. thank you so much, and have a great day ahead.