#voicethisout

Hey Anu akka
Do voice this out
I am a mother of six months baby girl. We are with our in laws. Since I got a c sec , I became lil weak , so after taking some rest I came from mothers place to my in laws place.

I am trying my hardest to adapt ,the basic thing which is hurting everyday is My mother in law telling me
That only u should clean baby pamper. If I ask some help from my husband like can you take my clothes upstairs to our room She starts telling me he is a businessman he needs some respect what if even your child grows and tell her father do all things. He need some respect.

I couldn’t understand what is there if he takes my clothes upstairs to my cupboard how come the respect to him will decrease. It’s always women who discriminate another women. Even home maker is also a equivalent job. Because if we do good job then only they can go and earn peacefully.
Like giving them the lingering three course meals ,juices buttermilk ,all the nuts and raisins, veggies fruits and milk on time and get their tantrums what are u doing whole day …. But taking my clothes my stuff is a sin I am trying my best to change this.

I hope I won’t get dejected coz my husband is supportive but he can’t sometimes voice out for me. I think many women out there may face these things.
The one thing we should keep in our mind it’s k we can change it in sometime and hope for it.