#voicethisout

Its we who create a tiny human and bring them into this world !! Later on , their growth depends on lot of factors. But in the initial days we (mother in us) directly take the whole responsibility of the baby weight gain/loss. If baby is gaining weight , we feel happy and satisfied, but i don’t see much guests appreciating that !! In the other case if baby is not gaining weight / poor weight gain , it takes a toll on us and we worry much even though baby is active and happy.

Most importantly the comments we get from the guests put us into stress and some how if we manage to get out of it , there comes another guest and this goes on !! Even now after my child turned 2yrs i still get those comment on why no much weight gain, the kid looks lean and such !!

Seriously we may not be the reason behind poor weight gain but the mother in us feels guilty and stressed !!

So to all those guests please stop commenting on my kid !! I don’t want my kid to become obese so that after few years it would be the same person commenting why don’t the kid have some more physical activity, because the kid has become fat these days !! So please stop commenting!! At the end we need a happy healthy child thats all.

2.4yrs of breastfeeding and still goin strong , reaching all milestones!! Kid is happiee , healthy and active , that’s all i need !! To be like is their own characteristics😊 but still when we hear comments, it puts under a doubt of guilt !!