#voicethisout

Hi mam… I’m a mother of 3 year old. Two years back I left my 8-year software job to take care of my daughter. I’m a stay-at-home mom. Is it wrong for me to expect some personal days for me when I go on a trip or something for 4 to 5 days a year, by leaving her to my parents? My husband thinks I’m not a good mother to expect some alone time.

He tells me I am avoiding her. But I’m with her all the time. Is expecting personal days where I can just be myself without worrying about my kid, a wrong thing? He calls me that I’m not fit for the family.

Sometimes, I wish to go to movies alone as my kid doesn’t let us watch movies. I just want some relaxed time for myself. I ask my husband to take care of her during that time. But he always taunts me for that telling me that once you have a kid you have to always go with your kid.

I always enjoy taking her to play areas where she can have fun. So it’s not that I didn’t want her to have fun. But I’m not allowed to have the me-time on my own.

Ours was a love marriage. And now everything is breaking.Please advise me if there’s something I have to change.